Dear ABBY: I arrive from a substantial, shut family members. The the greater part of them stay in another condition. A pair of family associates dwell in the exact same condition I reside in. One night, my uncle arrived more than and we have been hanging out acquiring beverages. We each drank way too considerably and at some level, he begun to kiss my neck. I informed him to end due to the fact he is family members, and he did. The good news is, almost nothing a lot more happened. The next day he texted and called profusely apologizing. I have been harm, sad and indignant ever considering the fact that. He preferred to speak about it, but I failed to.
We nevertheless see each other at household get-togethers considering that there are only a couple of us out below. I haven’t instructed any one, and it truly is hard to hold this to myself, but I am concerned that if I say anything, it could cause a rift in my family. How do I get via this without hurting them? Should really I confront him and inform him how this made me really feel? Really should I confide in a loved ones member? Or ought to I just fake it did not occur?
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